Arranged
Marriage in India
After
I watched a video, Arranged Marriage Is Not Forced Marriage, on The CNN Freedom
Project, I think culture of India has change from days to days, but it is
depend on family situations. Some normal families which be able to send their
children to university, they participated in society, so they understand how
important of freedom; they are not forced their children to marriage to person
who they don’t prefer. Parents just arranged marriage, but the last decision is
depend on themselves. For example, Priyank and Aditya Anand were not a love
marriage. At beginning, their parents celebrated a party for them to recognize
each other. Then, the parents said that just understand each other first before
both of you decide to marry or not. In
this case, I think sometimes, arranged marriage is not a bad way for some
people who are hard to find their lover or their lover is not as good as what
they expected. Thus, why do not they accept arranged marriage? However, most of
poor Indian families, they carry out too much on their custom and culture
without considering about human right.
For instance, Meena had been forced to marry to a black man, who she
never meet, by her father and grandfather when she was only 14 years old. They
threatened her that if she does not marry him, they will poisoned themselves.
At that time, she did not know what marriage really means and what happen after
marriage. After 2 weeks, she escaped and moved to live with her aunt, but her
father always call and ask her to be back to live with her husband. He does not
care how hard and how hurt that Meena receive from that family. Only one thing
that he cares is his fame, not his daughter life. I know each country has their
own culture I cannot judge that their culture is right or wrong, but they
should consider about their culture because some are unethical.
By: 00141
Thank you for sharing your opinion. I'm glad you watched the video- I also found it to be very interesting, and I agree with your final statement; it's difficult to find the balance between respecting cultural traditions and stopping unethical behavior.
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